This morning, the plan said to run 7 miles. On Thursday, I had asked Matt if he wanted to accompany me to a nearby park for the day’s 3-miler. He said he couldn’t make it but offered to run with me Saturday instead. When I said I was running 7 on Saturday, I totally did not expect him to want to come, but he offered! It was very exciting.
We got to the park around 8:30am and set out for the run. I really feel bad that my current comfortable pace is so slow because it’s so below his level, but every time I told him to go ahead if he wanted, he said he wanted to run with me. π
Last week, I ran 6 and I was expecting it to feel short and easy, but it didn’t because of the heat. Today, I had no such expectations. I can tell that I am slowly regaining fitness, but it is going to be a looong process and my confidence has truly been shaken. I am so far from the 8:35-pace 10-miler I remember running nearly two years ago.
Today, as with last week, I found myself questioning whether I would even finish. Honestly, I knew I would finish, especially because there was no way Matt was going to let me cop out, but I still questioned how I would do it. Of course, 7 miles isn’t very far, but I guess I was struggling mentally. Physically, I felt fine and my pace was extremely consistent, but I kept thinking negative things. Things like, “I’m not even halfway,” “I still have X amount of miles to go,” etc.
In the end, I was okay. I finished the distance no problem. My last mile was the quickest by about 15 seconds. I ran the last mile on my own because Matt decided to go ahead after 6 miles, but it seemed to pass quickly and I wasn’t dying. At least, in hindsight I wasn’t dying. I probably felt differently in the moment.
I know it is going to take a long time to get back the fitness I once had. I know it will take patience and consistency. And if my confidence is lacking, I need to fake it till I make it. Because I can’t keep asking myself if I am going to be able to finish my runs. I won’t always have someone there to keep me moving forward. I know I can run these distances and they would not be in the plan if I couldn’t. I need to trust and enjoy the process and the results will come. π
I’m feeling positive looking forward!
Well done! I’m also often fighting against negative voices during long runs. It iis difficult to keep them under control indeed!
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Congrats on a great run! Your perspective is awesome too – as much as it’d be amazing to regain all of our fitness, it is a process, but I think that makes accomplishing that so worth it in the end!
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Thanks!
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Great job – and as Laura said, great perspective. It is a process that takes time – and we can only control what we can control!
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Thank you. π That statement about control is a very good way to look at things n
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It sounds as if you know where you are at fitness wise right now and will be back to good soon. Each time you question yourself, you still go the distance!
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I do hope so. π and I know no matter how crappy I may feel, it’s not going to get any easier if I don’t finish my runs, so I do them anyway!
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Nice job! Yes, stay positive!
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Thanks! I am trying my best π
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